Conneting to server on network

I am trying to network between my laptop and my main computer, using the guide
This way I could store my datamined hands on the stationary and play on my laptop, but still using HUD with hands from the stationary.
q1:
Is this in the pg_hba.conf on my laptop or stationary?
same with "listen_addresses = '*'" in postgresql.conf, on the laptop or stationary?
q2:
I tested with ipconfig and find that my ip´s is:
laptop: 192.168.1.101
stationary: 192.168.1.100
I dont have any local area connection on the ipconfig (using a linksys router).
When I want to connect to the server (on stationary from my laptop) do I go into PT3 or pgAdmin?
If pgAdmin: Is it New server registation and what to fill in?
If PT3: Is it Configure PostgreSQL database, new and then what to fill in? I tryed with; Database PT3 DB, Server: 192.168.1.100, User: postgres, Port: 5432, Password dbpass and pushed "Browse Databases" but after a long time (10 min.) it said: Unable to login to database (template 1). Reasion: could not connect to server: Connection timed out (...). Is the server running on host "192.168.1.100" and accepting TCP/IP connections on port 5432.
I hope there is a simple answer to this
This way I could store my datamined hands on the stationary and play on my laptop, but still using HUD with hands from the stationary.
q1:
Step B) simply add the line below to the bottom of your document:
host all all 192.168.1.0/24 md5
Save and exit.
Is this in the pg_hba.conf on my laptop or stationary?
same with "listen_addresses = '*'" in postgresql.conf, on the laptop or stationary?
q2:
I tested with ipconfig and find that my ip´s is:
laptop: 192.168.1.101
stationary: 192.168.1.100
I dont have any local area connection on the ipconfig (using a linksys router).
When I want to connect to the server (on stationary from my laptop) do I go into PT3 or pgAdmin?
If pgAdmin: Is it New server registation and what to fill in?
If PT3: Is it Configure PostgreSQL database, new and then what to fill in? I tryed with; Database PT3 DB, Server: 192.168.1.100, User: postgres, Port: 5432, Password dbpass and pushed "Browse Databases" but after a long time (10 min.) it said: Unable to login to database (template 1). Reasion: could not connect to server: Connection timed out (...). Is the server running on host "192.168.1.100" and accepting TCP/IP connections on port 5432.
I hope there is a simple answer to this
