Can't connect to database. password problem?

I tried uninstalling but I can't see the PDF file bc I don't have the full version of it on my PC and it just freezes. Can someone copy and paste that, or just the steps for uninstalling postgres.
Whenever I try to open up pokertracker3 and connect to postgres it says "unable to connect to this database. please check configurations".
When I try and start, stop, restart, or go into the sql shell, it tells me access denied or for sql shell " password authentication failed."
Ive tried to edit the EDIT pg_hb.conf but I can't seem to get that file to open to change md5 to trust.
I'm on vista btw.
ughhhhhhhhhhhhh I just want to have a hud up for the games i grind.
Whenever I try to open up pokertracker3 and connect to postgres it says "unable to connect to this database. please check configurations".
When I try and start, stop, restart, or go into the sql shell, it tells me access denied or for sql shell " password authentication failed."
Ive tried to edit the EDIT pg_hb.conf but I can't seem to get that file to open to change md5 to trust.
I'm on vista btw.
ughhhhhhhhhhhhh I just want to have a hud up for the games i grind.