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How can I see how my opponent sees my stats?

You can do this with a custom report filter in My Reports. For example if you add the following as an "expression filter" in a new Player report (with yourself as the active player in the Player List) it will show your stats in cash hands where the specified villain was dealt in:

( 0 < (SELECT count(hhps2.id_hand) FROM cash_hand_player_statistics hhps2 WHERE hhps2.id_hand = cash_hand_player_statistics.id_hand AND hhps2.id_player = (SELECT p.id_player FROM player p WHERE player_name='VILLAIN_NAME_HERE')) )

Remember to change the villain name, but keep the single quotes around the name.
For tournaments change cash_ for tourney_.